A Flashback of 2011 ..!!

It's almost the end of the year. Looking back, the whole year seems nothing less than a race. It's hard to define who managed whom/what. Sometimes, I was managing the time and at other times, I was simply being carried away by time. But as it is said, the more you move ahead... the more you learn. 2011 was not that great but not too bad either. I had at least my share of learning. And I believe, as long as you are learning something, nothing is wasted.

In comparison to what I was last year, I think I am better now! I completed my second year in corporate and it's easy for me to believe now that, nothing is easy... at all. The old saying "no pain, no gain" holds true all the time. I met some real good challenges for which the term "Welcome To Corporate" was coined. There were many even- odd situations which I had to overcome on my own. Tough it was indeed.. but a great time to learn! Learn how things go seriously wrong, how people around you would deal with you, how you need to handle each situation professionally and even more important than that, diplomatically. It was a series of unpleasant experiences though.. yet a lesson for whole life! But only talking about the bad experiences would be unfair. Situations keep on changing... n so were mine. My life was getting better... tensions were lessening... time was changing! I indulged myself in hosting/coordinating various fun activities in the office. That was indeed a feather being added to my personality. It helped me in creating a very different identity of mine too. Fun was again back in my life. I handled some of the tasks.. which I really enjoy doing! Work becomes relaxing... when you are actually loving what you do. In short, my life improved professionally, my skills were polished and my creativity was brushed off! I won't have been able to achieve this without the support for a few wonderful people. The major part of the credit goes to Lala Bhai for his unique ways of inspiring me. Whatever I am today, it's because of his presence around! A big thanks to the most wonderful mentors I always have... Nivedita, Tapan, Siddharth, Roopesh, Balaji, Anjani, Saravana, Vivek and Vijayalakshmi. Work would not have been enjoyable without the mention of my 'gang'... Shirish, Ashish, Shipra, Sambit, Gopi, Sreemayee, Thejas, Poonam and Nidhi. Thanks guys for all the wonderful time :) You guys always rock!!

Professional growth always adds to the personal growth too. As I reach towards the end of this year, I can say that I am happy! Personally, I know I am growing! With time, there is a constant improvement in the maturity level of my mind. My mind does not loiter around much as it used to happen. I have learned on how to keep myself focused. Yes, I know I still have loads to learn and implement yet the start is not bad. I now understand the high aims behind my most cherished dreams and I am so keen to fulfill them. They have become so much important to me now that I just can't leave them aside! Also, I now trust my abilities that I can make them come true... so the fear of failure is not there anymore.

My personal and professional life, though a mixture of ups n downs... won't have been so important to me if I won't have the right people around me. My dreams, my hopes, my success, my failures won't have their true essence.. if my people won't have been around me. I have such a beautiful family... encouraging parents, inspiring brothers and sisters and very loving kids! It's more or less a dream family. I know I am never alone when such amazing persons are with me. I am sure, I won't be lost... for they won't let that happen with me. I am blessed to have them with me. They are my real strength. I am glad this family is day by day growing and so is our bonding. Hope this bonding of love, care and share continues forever!
     
This journey of life would not have been so fulfilling and easy without my 'duffer' yet 'wonderful' friends! They are always there to push me or pull me as and when required. I am always my own self when I am with them. They are my instant support system. I look up to them when am down, afraid or lost. They make my life more colorful. My tribute to them won't be complete unless I name them here. So here's a big thanks to Reshma, Amit, Yuvraj, Ujjaval, Somesh, Sourav, Suman, Shiv, Lisha, Ajit, Arun, Apu, Pogo, Vikram, Vipin and Ritesh. The list does not ends here.. but it would be an injustice if I specifically don't mention these names here! You guys are just wonderful! I can't imagine how boring would have been my life without you people around!

Like every other year, 2011 is remarkable too. Hope the days ahead are equally beautiful with these wonderful people!

Bye 2011... You have been great! But I have to move on... so that I can always look back at you and cherish how amazing you had been! You will be added as one more chapter in my life... as I move on, writing more chapters for my book :)


At some point, you have to realize that some people can only stay in your heart... not in your life!!

My Official Family ..!!

One thing is certain when I talk about office... there would be undoubtedly the mention of the three 'gems' I started my career with... Ashish, Shirish and Vipin! But as the life moves on... people are usually in an "in-and-out" mode. They either enter your life or exit. Those who stay.. they become a part of the family... the Official Family! Introducing the new members of my Official Family (some names which you must have read many a times without actually knowing them :))

SREEMAYEE :- My friend-cum-enemy :P We were cubical partners and I don't remember of a day when we had not argued (not the serious ones, guys) :) It was fun... not only for us, but also for those who were seated next to us. More or less, we were an entertainment package for them. It so happened that the day we would be silent, they would try to start some arguments between us (mostly Niraj :P). Our "tom and jerry" relationship was not limited to office only. She soon became a part of our group and we had many adventures together... in birthday parties, farewell ceremonies, outings (Munnar and Bluemoon Retreat), movies and many more. Then one day, she did it! She left my cubical and shifted to a different workstation :( That day onwards, I became so silent :( :( But thankfully, she is still on the same floor.. so I literally have to go to her place when I need to tease her! A caring and fun-loving friend but please please please... don't get into dealing with her mood... else you are doomed :) In a few days, she will be promoted... from a single girl to a married one (God save our Jiju :P)!  Many many best wishes for this new venture in life and hope you have a wonderful life ahead! 

VIVEK :- Smart, cute, intelligent, helpful, fun loving etc etc... some adjectives that best describe this guy! My lunch partner on Wednesdays and Fridays... the days for which I keep waiting :) One more thing we love to do is discuss about books and dogs... our common favorites. A great person to hang out with... let it be an ice-cream treat or a proper lunch treat. He also is a great help when it comes to technology. A person who would always introduces new websites, forums or blogs to me. Everything good except the fact that he did not take Sree to her most desired place and to add to that, he denied to take us in his car :( Viv, hope you have not forgotten that (considering your sharp memory but yes, we won't let you forget) :P Jokes apart, a good friend to be with. He has soon become an important part of this family with his amiable qualities that never go unnoticed :)

THEJAS :- He joined as a fresher after we joined, hence he's a junior to me (which makes me really happy :P) He is following the foot steps of his mentor Viv. Equally forgetful in nature and always lost in his own world (which includes his Deepu too :P) If at all, you find him in this world... then he would be lost in the internet searching for newest of gadgets and games. We literally have to drag him for lunches when we go out as he would always begin with a "no". We are so used to it now :P You would always find him very very happy on Fridays which is obvious as he leaves for Mysore, his home town. But where you would go wrong is... he is not happy to meet his family. It's something else which I cannot disclose here :P Guys, keep guessing :)

VIJAYALAKSHMI :- Considering the fact that she has such a short name... we made it even shorter... VJ or Vij :) A sweet girl with beautiful suits :) But who said sweet girls are not serious? This girl is really really serious when it comes to work. You would always find her digging into the system and you would automatically have an impression of not disturbing her (which we never follow). Other than work, she is also serious about her Amadeus friend :) She is beautiful with a beautiful smile... which must have killed many wherever she goes. Vij, nice to have you in our family... keep smiling :)

GOPI :- He was introduced to us by Vipin (his teammate). He is an amazing shutterbug who can capture wonderful moments. He has been with us in almost all the events we had... from Munnar to Bluemoon Retreat to birthday parties to long rides to lunches to dinners to .... the list goes on! The first impression you would have of this guy is... he is very serious. To add to this, he would be working till 9:00 PM - 10:00 PM and sometimes even more. Hardworking!! But the fact that you won't notice is he would start working at 5:30 PM or 6:00 PM. So counting from that, he puts almost the same efforts as everyone else does :P One more thing about him is, he would literally forget you if some special people are around :P He is striving really hard to impress someone. Hope he does that someday :) But Gopi, I wont forgive you for the pics you have taken on that Diwali celebration event at office... beware of that :)

Still many members in queue and their descriptions are in progress :)

Our Own "Prince" Charming ..!!

This is a post which was started long back yet could not be published. May be I was not satisfied with the entries or may be it was not the right time to post... whatever be the matter, it's time now to unveil this very very special blog post for a very dear friend! He is none other than, Yuvraj... our own Prince Charming!

How we met was just by chance! Those were the days when our fellow trainees left for Mumbai and only the Bangaloreans were left. As always, we made a point to keep the spirit alive and meet each other regularly and have fun. Then one day, Yuvraj came with Vipin (was Vipin's roommate then) for a movie we planned... and that's it! In the first meeting only, he connected with us really well. He amazed us with his amazing ways. He had that "never-say-no" kind of spirit which would always lift us to gear up for various outings and plans. Soon our lives picked up the speed.. it was no more boring or monotonous. We had the best of our moments in the form of outings, birthday surprises, exploring Bangalore, movies and many more. One thing I particularly like about him is, his attitude. Attitude towards everything... let it be towards friends, family, life, happiness, worries, problems! And that's the best thing ever.. because, attitude only defines what you are! He, with his exceptional ways of making friends and organizing events, soon became a key member in our group.

Some of the wonderful moments we shared and would cherish forever were our trips to Mysore and Munnar, wonderful birthday surprises, our new year celebrations (Xyka and my place), shopping for others (mostly Vipin :P), our early morning drives to drop Mouli at the airport, day outings to Nandi Hills and Bluemoon Retreat and visits to Isckon temple and Bull temple. With him, time flies fast. We never missed any of the occasions to have fun... celebrated Holi, Valentines' Day, Friendship Day, Ganesh Puja and many small events here and there. When we don't have anything planned, we would just meet for kachori-samosa party or a treat of ice-cream. Those small-sweet moments we had together were equally memorable.

Besides the above mentioned, I have even more wonderful moments in my memory because of him. Those were the initial days after we met. With him, I saw almost the whole of the Bangalore city. Exploring new markets and places with him was fun. To name a few places we explored were Lalbagh, KR Market, National Market. The funniest moment I had with him was when we were going to some party (with DJ, I guess), took a lot of pain to come out of office soon, meet and then search for the venue and finally get to know that it's fake :) Shopping with him were interesting too... for he would take his own sweet time to check each and every pair of jeans and shirts before actually buying them. Bows to his patience! May be that's why Vip would always rate him as the best person to go with for shopping and there's no doubt in that. Not only shopping, whatever he does... he puts his best efforts into it.

His zeal was unending. The time came when he had to leave Bangalore and trust me, that was a time when we all were in a mixed state of emotions. The thought of how our lives would change without one of our important friends being there was very disheartening. But this guy, before leaving also... he went ahead adding one more flower into our bouquet of memories... with the wonderful treat for us! That was a great evening for all of us!

As it is said, time and tide never waits for none... they come and go on their way and we just get carried away with the swift passage of time. Our time passed away in a happy and fulfilling atmosphere. Yuvraj left Bangalore but left us with ample memories. But, he is still so connected with all of us. Glad to have crossed path with this 'gem' of friends. Hope this friendship flows forever... Amen!!

Hey, this post is special for it's your birthday today! Here are a few lines for you :

In soft gleaming light of stars...
May all your dreams come true.
May every star of every night...
Bring love and joy to you..!!

Happy Birthday, Yuvraj!!

P.S. Hope you have not forgotten your last birthday :P

Have fun, have a blast :)


To meet and depart is the way of life but to depart and meet is the hope of life ..!!

Cafe Coffee Night ..!!

Even though there are only five working days, I usually get bored by the third day itself and would feel like not going to office. But as always, I drag myself to the office. When you are in a situation like this, the idea of partying or going out is a fun in itself. 

That was a boring Wednesday too and I didn't have much to do. So I joined Shipra in teasing Sambit (who was supposed to give us chocolates :P) Then Shipra had a deal with him. She asked him to come over for dinner and then he could get her chocolates. Deal was fair enough but the adventure was only half way, Shobhit not being included in the venture! So we (Me and Shipra) immediately chalked out a plan and invited Shobhit and Sambit for dinner. 

Now, this was a different experience for me altogether as I hardly invited anyone for a vegetarian lunch/dinner (though I guess, I can cook well :)) But with Shipra being around, I was kind of confident that it would go well. On a preparatory note, I came out of office soon and got the ingredients required for the dinner. The menu planned was Veg Pulao, Dal and Paneer Chilli. Shipra came with other necessary items and of course Sambit :) 

Shobhit joined us while the snacks party (hosted by Shipra) was on. We were side by side busy cooking but it was done within the time we estimated. I had prepared Paneer and was damn nervous, paneer being the favorite item of Sambit. But yes, I can guarantee about the Pulao and Dal by Shipra... they were yummy. Shipra is a "Dal Specialist"... a term coined by Me for her :) Whatever it was, our guests were generous enough to appreciate the dishes we prepared. 

We were almost done by 10:00 PM when everyone thought of going to coffee shop. We started for Barista but landed at Cafe Coffee Day (in the Night :P). There, we talked... teased each other... took pictures... had choco drinks and of course loads of fun! By around 11:30 PM we came back home! That was probably the first time, I was out for so late with my friends... a nice experience though! As I always believe, to have a quality time... a good company is a must! Thanks guys, for that wonderful time :)

Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead. If you lose, you can guide others ..!!

My Hang Out Friends ..!!

As the time moves on, my friendship voyage also keeps moving ahead! Not that I keep forgetting my old set of friends and look for new ones... but it's just that, I connect well with people who are more or less of my types... fun-loving, less-complicated and easy-going types! Glad to have met a few in this category too! Meeting them or spending time with them can be taken characterized as "fun, fun and only fun"! Here goes a brief intro of each of them :

YUVRAJ :- Our own "Prince Charming"! His never-ending zeal and always-lifted spirits made him one of the strongest pillars of our group. Quite amiable in nature and a  very helpful friend... you would always find him besides you in the best of your moments and worst of situations. Life is always at a speeding pace and very very eventful when he is there. I would always cherish the times we had shared.... let be at outings or parties or movies or any venture we tried! A "gem" of friends indeed!

SHIPRA :- We started as colleagues... then became good friends and now we are roommates. Her easy-going character is very much evident from the progress she made from a colleague to my roommate. It also defines how well we got along with each other. Like me, she also has a very long chain of friends. Having her around is really fun! I always wonder how would she survive if she is ever punished to stay quiet for just an hour.... a real chatter-box she is! But the point here is, I really love her chattery nature. In fact, I can't bear her sitting quietly.... and if at all she does, then guys, be sure that she is having a mood-out time and you better be careful dealing with her! You never know, what trouble you invited :P Jokes apart, she is caring and loving and of course, a very dear friend of mine! Love you lots, Shipu!! Keep talking... keep rocking :)

SAMBIT :- We knew each other because of Shipra. He is both funny and fun-loving! His talks can create wonders. You won't even realize if he is praising you or teasing you (Trust me, this is an art... not everyone can do this :P). A great lover of Paneer and Hookah. That means, if you are with him an item of Paneer is must and if at all, you have invited him over lunch/dinner... Paneer is a mandatory item (It's paneer for him as it's chicken for me :P). I really had a tensed moment when I prepared Paneer for him (tried something for the first time). As the saying goes... every friend is necessary(courtesy Airtel), it's really cool to have a friend like him around!You can laugh, laugh and laugh till you drop... when he is there!

SHOBHIT :- When there's a discussion about Sambit... Shobhit has to be there! They are our very own "Jai-Veeru"! He is sensible and helpful and a good friend to be with. But when he is with Sambit, there's only fun, fun and fun! It's good to have such people around... they give a good break from the boring monotonous life! Shobhit as such is cool and composed except those few wonderful moments when some special people come infront of him! You won't find him anymore in this world... he would be lost in his dreams in a different world! Jokes apart, a nice guy with wonderful creative ideas (which I like the most) and of course, wonderful friend!

RITESH :- A new addition in my group. He was late to join us but his energy matches with us (though we haven't gone out yet together for outings and all). A good friend who can talk and talk and talk and would always say that I talk a lot (I know, some of my friends have no brains :P) He, like Vipin, has a good book of childhood days which would make you cry out of laughter! One thing I like about him.... he never says "No" (at least not to me, so far)! Such a good friend he is, he agreed to watch even Ra.One with me... though I am not sure if he liked the movie or not! And because of that only reason.. I can consider him as one of my good friends I made in Bangalore!! Keep it up, Ritesh.... Don 2 is on the way :P

In addition to the above mentioned, hanging out is always a fun with Shirish, Arathi and Sanjeev also... for the adventurous spirits and amazing attitude they have! Glad to have such people in my life! Still, my listing is incomplete... hope I will finish it someday!!


Friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything..!!

Meeting My Bangalore Friends ..!!

I am mostly easy-going in nature for which I guess, I mix well with people. Over the years, I have made a number of friends.. some of them I still preserve while some chose to move away. Also there were few whom I mistook as my friends and had to go away from them. Whatever be the case, the fact still holds good that I have many friends whom I can always count on!

After coming to Bangalore, the most enjoyable times were the initial training days... more or less similar to that of the college days. We were around 25 and we connected really well and became friends. Now, Shirish, Vipin, Yuvraj, Ashish, Mouli, Arathi, Jahnavi... these are the most mentioned names in my blogs but I have not shown them completely to my world of blogging (except Shirish, Vipin and Ashish). So here is brief description of my new set of friends here:

ARATHI :- One of my friends from Ness with whom my walking frequency matches really well :) We have been friends since our training days and one thing I can guarantee about her is, she is a wonderful friend. Easy-going in nature, fearless, energetic and enthusiastic are the words that describe her well. She has a bit of creative side in her too. She is a voracious reader too. The best thing about her is, you chose any topic, she can have a conversation with you on that! Vipin has to be careful always when Arathi is around, who knows she may try some of her Karate tricks on him :P

MOULI :- We met at Ness and connected really well (she being a Bengali from Assam and studied in Odisha). She did not stay with us in the accommodation we were provided but on special occasions she would join us and again we used to drop her at her place. From shopping to parties to outing, she was always there. From friends, we became roommates and true as we thought, she is a "delicate-darling". Scared of almost all living creatures (lizards to cockroaches to cows to dogs to cats... almost everything) but love reading and watching vampire series. I have seen her gradual transformation from a bubbly girl to a very responsible sister and daughter! Once you know her, teasing becomes really fun and she is really an easy target :P

JAHNAVI :- We started off as roommates since the beginning of our training in Ness. She would always be in her world... through her phone! Fun loving and cheerful, she would always join us in all the fun acts we do. Whenever she walks or gets ready to go somewhere, she would take her own sweet time to prepare or walk. So in case, you want her at a certain time, you should actually tell her to start from an hour earlier.. then hopefully she would reach on time! One of thing, in case you are watching Hindi movies with her, then there are chances you might be asked for better clarifications of the ongoing scenes :P Jokes apart, she is a wonderful girl to hang out with :)

ANJANA :- Anjana is someone with a diverse knowledge on almost all techs n gadgets. That's a different story that she realized "the 3 mistakes of her life" after joining Ness. She would not join us in all our fun activities always yet she would come in one or two which we plan according to her availability. You chose any topic, she can take the conversation from there. It's fun to have her around to keep away boredom! A nice friend indeed :)

SANJEEV :- "The Mysterious Killer" of our group! We adopted this nomenclature for him for his role in a skit we had during our early induction days. But chill guys, his intentions are purely harmless. a very fun loving guy and jokes are always at his tongue tip. One thing you would notice about him is... he and his cell phone are inseparable! He is always lost in his phone. We used to meet regularly for lunches earlier but with increased workload, that has become a bit tougher. Yet we still try to meet as and when possible!

The list of my friends doesn't ends here. But the list here is a bit special for they are the pioneers in making my life at Bangalore fun and easy going! Had they not been there, I would have lost every interest for this place and ultimately my work! Thanks guys, for everything!


Friends are the sailors who guide your rickety boat safely across the dangerous waters of life..!!

My 1st Century ..!!

Yes!! I have reached my 100th post... achieved my 1st century in this blogging world! This blog has been my personal favorite space. I have mentioned anything and everything that matters in my life. Every single incident that I would like to cherish down the line, resides royally in my blog. I love this space of mine and enjoy every moment with it. It has seen me in my best and worst of moods and have bore my anxiety, fear, tear, smile, feelings, emotions and all that is mine! It took me almost 5 years to score a ton and at the end, I am here all happy and feeling like a winner. I have been able to successfully capture the most beautiful moments in my life in the form of my words. I cannot go back to that particular moment but I can surely go back to its memories through my blog. There are so many sweet-salty memories, many more dedications for some very special people, events happening in my life in a chronological manner and many abstract thoughts.. all beautifully portrayed in this blog.

Thanks once again, dear blog, for being such a powerful influence in my life!! Hope to make another century soon in this world of blogs :)

Home Sweet Home ..!!

Staying away from home is probably the toughest punishment for me and the irony is, I have been away from home from the past 6 years. 6 years!!! I remember the first time I was going out of home to a hostel in Bhubaneswar for some end-moments preparations, my Father was so damn upset! He's emotional but for the first time I saw him crying! Trust me, it's actually heart-shattering to see someone so near to your heart, crying. His heart knew then that now I am out... I will be out of home :( My Mother is a bit stronger as compared to my Father. She would not let her grief come to her face and expressions. My little Sister is more inclined to Papa when emotions are considered. Her red-moist eyes and shaking lips would say everything. But somewhere deep inside, I was wondering that they would soon be used to this. Life would go on. I was also expecting that they won't be sad again when I would be away somewhere pursuing my academic degrees. Time came and I joined my college. Four long years in hostel!! Again, my family came to leave me at my hostel. There I realized, nothing had changed. They were still the same. I still remember that day, I kept all my belongings in my room (which was my home for the next 4 years), met a few friends and then bent down to touch Papa's feet. The moment I stood up... there he was in tears! That was probably the first time I cried that badly. The world around me literally stopped. It was almost a depressing state for me. They all left with heavy hearts but I was left behind with a heavier heart! Time went on... made friends... met people... life was good, but somewhere it was empty. That emptiness would have been filled only if I would have been at home,with my dear ones... people who are mine... people who are always on my side, when the whole world stands on the opposite side! In college, I would always be waiting for the sessions to be over so that I can go home. That had a charm of its own! Again, the same old story would occur... would have fun there n again everyone would be sad when I would leave. But I would still say, things were much better.. since we were just a full-night-distance away.

After college, life became serious. I had to move to Bangalore to make one more move in my career. Leaving home then was different. My whole world was there and I was all alone. My heart still aches when I remember that moment. Papa was coming with me. Ma and Chinki were silent. No one was saying anything. Everyone lost in their own silence, own emotions.. trying not to show others. I could not meet my eyes with Chinki fearing that if I do so, she would break the boundary and would cry. Although I could already sense her teary-moist eyes, I dared not to see her. I just gave her a small-warm hug. While in auto-rickshaw, all I could see was Ma :( I knew, life would be tough without her being around. It was such a moment in my life, I would not like to face that ever again. My heart was crying out loudly but I was silent. I had to be silent for Papa was around.

I reached Bangalore, had the interviews and was done with the joining formalities and all. The next shattering moment was yet to be witnessed. Papa would be leaving. Those moments are still afresh in my mind when Papa was leaving me at Ness with Mitu Apa. He was crying so badly. I would have been lost if Lala Bhai and Bapi Bhai won't have been there. Papa called me when he was leaving for Odisha the next day, I could not talk to him only!

As always, life goes on! All good and bad that happens are a part of life. Now, reaching home is like a dream sometimes considering the work, career and everything but virtually, it's just a call away. I talk to all my family members almost everyday and with each passing day, the urge of going home increases! Even now also, when I go home, life seems all good...  there's fun in everything and happiness everywhere. While coming back, it feels as if, something is left behind... it's not the complete-Me that comes back! Here in Bangalore, cousins are there... many friends too... we meet time-to-time... have fun... cherish old days... have taken a house... stay on my own... but still homeless! Truly said, home is house where each wall and corner knows you, where you live with your loved ones! I surely have a house here but my home is far far away where my loved ones are!


A house is made of walls and beams; a home is built with love and dreams!!

For Zarjish ..!!

I don't know why and how I started writing this post but it came to me all of a sudden that I must do it. This is a very special post dedicated to someone special on his special day. A person who is there with me in all my odds and evens in life, who makes me happy when I am upset and makes me upset when I am happy, who can bear me in all my moods, listens to all my blabbers and makes me listen his stupid stories, with whom my mental frequency matches and before whom I vent out my heart, with whom the time just flies away and in the end we realize that we have not talked much... for others, he would be Zarjish or ZBB or anything they call him but I would consider that someone as "my best friend" in life. It's his birthday today and that's why this post is dedicated to him. I don't think, I would have got any better gift for him!  (Hope he likes it too ;))

How we got to know each other is a different story... but we got along really well due to the various similarities in our nature and interests! Literature and creativity is something which strengthened our bond of friendship. I really cherish the moments we spent together working for the literary events organized for the fests. That was the time when we talked a lot and such a personality he has.... one would never get bored talking to him. He won't let that awkwardness come to your way either. The same trick worked for me as well and I guess it was easy for him as I possess the same traits too! We would discuss quite a lot on topics ranging from books to movies to writings to music to actors to many more! And most of the time, we would conclude that our choices do match!

But, it's not about the similarities always.... there are n numbers of differences as well. The major difference lies in our perception! He would be angry at very stupid things (which I do laugh at sometimes) while I would be calm and composed most of the times. He never thinks before taking any decision, he immediately does what he wants (for which he has to repeat the same thing a number of times) but he won't pay any attention to what I say for his good only. He is not as great fan of SRK as I am (truly speaking, he just hates SRK) but he is the only actor about him this guy would talk a lot. Not only talk, he would watch all his movies and reality talks and would narrate the whole story before me! Now once started, there would be number of instances... so I believe I should not go that way as it's a never ending way ;) There are many reasons and situations where we easily go against each other and I won't have to think twice before saying that he acquires the topmost position in my hit-list of enemies!!! Such is our enmity that it reflects in our profession as well... am into software development while he is a tester (the main reason of our stupid quarrels) :P

Jokes apart, no matter how big an idiot and stupid he is, he is just sweet in his own ways! Once you know him, you would love to be touch with him forever. You would enjoy the talks, the chats, the fights as well. Such a charming person he is, you won't ever feel alone when he is around! I know I have earned a wonderful friend of lifetime... for he is there for me always! I guess, he is one of those very few people whom I can always count on! Thanks dear, for being so good to me.... for knowing me and still being my friend.... and for everything! I know, I may not be as good a friend as you are but you can always count on me whenever you want... and I promise, I would be there for you! That's all I can gift you on your birthday!

It's your birthday and I can't be there
But I'll send you a special birthday wish and a little prayer
Have a happy birthday
I hope that all of your birthday wishes come true
May you have a great time today and find happiness in everything you do. 

Happy Birthday!

 

Second Milestone ..!!

2 years back, life was different for me. I was in the last stages of my student life and initial stages of my professional life. There was a mix of fear, anxiety, excitement and astonishment in my emotions. Once in a while, one has to make some tough choices in life which changes quite a lot of things. For me, my life revolves around my family and leaving them was the toughest challenge before me. But I had to... to make a career, to make a stand for myself and to be stable enough to fulfill the long cherished dreams. The journey for this started and today I completed 2 years in my venture... 2 years in corporate!

These two years were crucial for me. Learning, unlearning, trying, testing, experimenting, researching, failing, losing and what not! Life's been hard and I hardly had any time for anything. But then, achieving something needs dedication. Every achievement has a story beneath it and I totally accept whatever it takes. The way may be distorted but the destination is clear and all that you gain is experience! Coming to experience, I believe I have earned it in every way... personally and professionally. I have better understanding of how the business is done. I can better interpret the tasks given. My technical knowledge has improved as well. I know how to deal with people in certain situations which I believe is utmost important. Personally, I have understood my limitations and obstructions and taken every chance to overcome those. With experience and knowledge, I have stepped up one more level in maturity. I now know how to handle tough situations and how to take major decisions. One particular thing I am very happy of is, I am very clear of my ambitions. I don't want to be just any other software professional... my dreams go much beyond that. They are tough... hard to achieve... but then dreams should be like that... as beautiful as ever!

My second year in corporate has been so fulfilling so far but it won't have been without proper support and inspiration! The greatest support I received was from my family. My Father, who always stands as an inspiration.. was always there to keep me going. My Mother was always there motivating me with her caring ways. They kept instilling in me the fact that, nothing comes easy and you don't actually live a life, if you have not struggled for it. My sweet little sister was always there with her sweet little ways of love and care which would take me out of all my problems and tensions. My cousins, whom I always look up to as my role-models.. were there to cheer me up when I am down, guide me when am lost, teach me when I am unaware and inspire me when I am gone. I really don't know if I could ever thank Lala Bhai for all that he's been for me. My journey would have been something else if he won't have been there for me. He's there in my every ups and downs, all good and bad phases... equally motivating me. With him, I am just what I am. He's a consistent guiding force for me... who always inspires me. His success story itself is an inspiration for all of us (particularly Me). I don't know if I could really get there but I am sure, if he's there with me... I won't be lost!

Besides family, there are some friends without whom my journey won't have been this enriching. To name a few.. Reshma, Amit, Anurag, Shiv, Apu, Ajit, Yuvraj, Zarjish, Rinku and many more. This professional journey won't have been a wonderful one without some really wonderful people around. A heart-felt thanks to Deb and Nivedita for helping me trust my potential. The next person whom I really look upon is Tapan. He's always been a consistent guide for me from whom I have always learned. With him around, confidence comes on its own. I can say these same words for another really wonderful person, Roopesh. It would not be fair if I don't thank Satya, Keerthi, Vivek, Rino, Siddharth and Sreemayee for being there. I know, sometimes I just eat up their brains and they are just so nice to bear me still. Work gets easy when such people are around. My technical knowledge has improved.. a major chunk of credit for this goes to Viv. I would always be thankful to Sneha for all her mentoring. She truly made me realize my potential and helped me in overcoming my difficulties. Besides, I would also like to thank Ganesan, Jitender, Neelima and Thejas. Work can never be interesting if fun is not around. All thanks to my "Mad Group" of Shirish, Ashish, Vipin, Mouli, Arathi, Jahnavi, Anjana and Sanjeev. Some more additions to this same group with Gopi, Venkat, Sandesh, Shridhar, Vij, Shruti, Shipra, Sunaina, Sarat, Lekhya, Shweta, Shobhit, Sambit, and Sarthak. A cheerful thanks to the Fun-Committee team (Kamesh, Ashish, Punit, Neha, Jitendra, Shobhit, Vivek) for keeping the spirits on and making the work-place a lively one! A last thanks to God for giving me every strength to move on and blessing me with such a wonderful time of life with wonderful people.

The only thing coming to my mind is, "I know I have promises to keep... And miles to go before I sleep"!


People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing..!!

A Special Visit To Home ..!!

Even if it's been a long time that I am out of my home yet I eagerly keep waiting for the day when I can go home. The charm it has cannot be matched with anything else in the world. I planned for a 15 days vacation from 1st of July till 15th of July. Though it was the time of Rath Yatra but my sole purpose of visiting home was different. It was the 25th marriage anniversary of my parents. A very special day for Me n Chuku indeed! Also, it was God's will that I got a chance to go during the Rath Yatra... a bonus for my journey!

I reached the day before the Rath Yatra. My holiday began with a get-together at my aunty's place. It was nice to see all my aunties, uncles and cousins after a long time. I also made a short tour to Puri for the festival and had a wonderful 'darshan'. Meeting friends and relatives is always a pleasure. Had a great time with Reshma and Shiv. Met Pramod and Chinmay too. You always feel blessed when you see your old friends with you even if you did not say a word to each other in the past years!

And finally, the D day arrived. Everything was planned earlier only. Half of my relatives already knew that I would come to Odisha for the celebration. Only official invitation was left! I invited all those whom i really wanted to be there. I was also glad of the fact that I could get some gifts for them on behalf of both Me n Chinki :) We had a wonderful lunch and a memorable get-together. It's nice to have such "all within the family" occasions. It feels great! Even though, I could not implement what all Chuku planned... yet it was all better!

It's always great to cherish the time spent with family and when it comes to some celebration for parents, it's precious. My trip to home was a success.. we could do a bit of what we wanted. Our parents were happy. We being the reason of their happiness, made us happier! May God bless them with all that they desire and fill their lives with peace, content and happiness! Amen!

Dear Bapa & Ma,

We just want to let you know that we love you very much! Whatever we have done or whosoever we are now, it's all because of you. We promise to carry your values to whatever height we may go and that we won't ever let you down. We would try our best for not being the reason of your unhappiness. Bless us so that we can always move ahead and fulfill all your dreams and please be with us, always! 

Loads of Love!

Yours Ever,
Tinku & Chinki

Happy 25th Anniversary!!

Happy Birthday To Me ..!!

It's my 2nd birthday in Bangalore. Each birthday of mine has always been special in some way or the other. Last year, which can be said as my first birthday in Bangalore, was truly a surprise package for me.. for my friends amazed me by celebrating my birthday at my place, exactly at 00:00 hours. That was indeed special. I never thought my 2nd birthday would also be an interesting one. My office-gang celebrated it one day earlier (which was completely surprising for me). I expected them to plan out something... but what they did was out of my imagination! Vip also did not give any slightest of hint though we did talk in the morning that day. I know, that's very unusual of him. A cake from Mouli (as my roommate) was expected. I had also Apu and Pogo with me. As always, Chinki was the first of all to wish me exactly as the clock struck 12 in the night. Then there was a series of call... the whole night. It so happens that whom you actually expect to call you on your day.... they are usually the ones to forget. Again, it also happens that those from whom you did not even imagine to get a call, are the ones to call you! In the morning, I went to temple (which is an important thing for me, besides talking to my parents). After I came back, Itu and Siblu dropped in... which was a surprise for me :) And finally, my old friends came. I cut 4 cakes in total and all were of different flavors. We had a party and by evening everything was wrapped up. I was again all alone, which I believe is the saddest part of any special day!

I missed two of my dear friends, Reshma n Yuvraj and so much hoped that they were there :( But then, there are things which are not meant to be of your way! I am glad the day was over soon. And, that was the time when I knew how important my family and friends are for me... without them, I would have been lost surely!

Happy Birthday To Me!!


Be selective with whom you share your secrets, happiness, pain and sorrows because only few people truly care. Others are just curious to know about you!

Bundle Of Joys ..!!

This week is a really special one for all of us. Kuku Apa, the 'Star Of Our Family' did it!! She finally succeeded in living her dreams and creating a record. Yes, getting a rank in UPSC is like a dream for many of us but evolving out as a winner and grabbing the topper's position is something which we can only imagine!! Hats off to the girl who actually did it. This is what I would term as 'achieving success'... because getting a 2nd position in the whole country where lacs of candidates would appear and that too when you have a tough job in place, a married life and family and above all, a kid (our sweetheart, Timpoo) to look after! Only she can explain how she feels, that's beyond  my power of imagination. All I can say is, we are really proud of you Kuku Apa! You would stand as an example before us always and we are glad to have someone like you as our role model. Love you a lot <3

Just two-three days after this super-awesome news, the second bundle of joy came in the form Kutu Apa's baby... Aaliya!! Welcome Baby Aaliya to our family... I tell you, you were the most awaited kid in our family! Your Mom kept telling me about your developments and since then, I always wanted to see you. Now that you have actually arrived... you don't know Sweety, how much I want to see you. Your Mom did send me your pictures and you are really a cutie pie! It's hard to resist the fact that I cannot see you in real now! So baby, grow up soon and come soon to India :) We will have fun! Love you <3


As you make your way through this hectic world of ours, set aside a few minutes each day. At the end of the year, you'll have a couple of days saved up!!

Away From Commitments ..!!

Blogging is one activity which never bores me. I can spend hours and hours on blogs... let it be reading the posts, writing new ones, admiring others' blogs or simply experimenting with the various features on my blog. But past few days were too hard for me. I could hardly take out time to update this 'my-space'. I have my own commitments for myself  through this blog space but I failed to cope with them. I know, my excuses are not enough! Dear Blog, I am so sorry for it too!

But now am back! Back to my own self, where every bit of my life rests on this space of mine. I will try my best to keep this updated as much as I can. Till then, stay tuned to this page.. more posts on way :)

Watery Moments..!!

Life becomes really monotonous if changes are not there. To give ourselves a break from our crazy life, we thought of doing something crazier :) We- Myself, Yuvraj, Shirish, Vipin, Apu, Sreemayee, Gopi, Hitesh and Mayank decided to visit a resort (Bluemoon Retreat) where they offered water sports like boating, canoeing, kayaking etc. We started quite late because of the cloudy weather which made us doubtful whether we would be able to accomplish our mission or not. But somehow, ours was a group of highly optimists and enthusiasts! We kept going. That itself was an adventure for we lost our way and in that process covered the same road for three-four times. I guess, that was the best part of it. Although there were questions on the existence of the resort and the security of the place altogether but we were firm in our decision. We got the directions even by calling the contact persons of the resort. After lots of research, brain-storming and discussions, we finally made out way. Going somewhere with Vipin is another story in itself. He would be riding but his thoughts would have taken him to a different land. In that case, all you can do is keep him busy with talks or anything. And most importantly, you have to be really alert even if you know Vip is simply following where others are going, there are chances he would forget that and make you lose your way :P Jokes apart, he is a safe rider (touch wood) and an amazing person to be with. Now, I have mentioned this big story (one golden feather on his cap!) because I was with him :) As always, Vip was simply following the masterminds of the trip (Yuvraj, Shirish..... n others) and I had to be alert to see if we are following them correctly :) Again I also enjoyed the whole ride, as always!

We reached at the resort at around 11:00 (pretty late) but breakfast was still there for us. All these while, I was absolutely in love with the nature! The place was so blessed with plants, trees and was truly a beauty! It was a heaven for the people in love with nature and interested in photography! My cam must have been fully satisfied for the views were just amazing. Soon we made our way to the arena meant for boating and kayaking. Although I love water (beach and river) but water sports are always a tension for me due to my breathing problems. Sree is an exception! With asthma and all breathing problems, she managed really well after diving into the water. Trust me, I was scared for her but she is a brave girl! Somehow I prepared myself for boating (else I would have always regretted for it). I couldn't dive into the water like others did (with life guard and jackets) but being in the boat and surrounded with water is a different feeling altogether! It was awesome actually. After a ride of about 2 hours or so, we landed on the shore and went for lunch. Plan was to play some indoor games but we were so much in love with the water and nature that going back to those usual games didn't excite us. Post lunch, we went for kayaking. It was comparatively scary as you would be all on your own but trust me, it was equally adventurous! Lazy Gopi was with me this time :P And I really had a tough time chasing others. It was fun when we tried keeping all the kayaks together. We gathered at one place for quite some time before rowing back again. Soon the day was shedding down and it was time to go back to the shore. Not forgetting, Shirish was our star performer of the day for he made the first dive and came to the shore swimming! Also I was glad of the fact that Apu did enjoy a lot. She was new into our group but our champs didn't let her feel left out!

We were so busy enjoying the adventure and were glad that it turned out well. God did help us by bringing some sun-light and shutting the rain studded sky for sometime. Meanwhile, we had taken loads of pictures so that we can always go back and cherish those moments. While returning, I came with Yuvraj (my fav rider) and it was fun again. But to add the day's adventure, it started raining and we had to keep a guard on Vip for the reasons I mentioned above. We were badly stuck in the traffic while entering Bangalore. Somehow, the road cleared and we came. Vip got lost in the way but we got hold of him and he was asked to reach his place. Yuvraj and Shirish came to my place to drop Me and Apu. We had tea which was our savior then for we were literally shivering! After they left, I made a hot dinner for myself and Apu and finally, the day ended! I know, many would have cursed for it rained just when we have reached Bangalore but I would say, it added more fun to it. It was indeed a watery day for me!

Before I end, I would like to introduce one more member into our shutterbug group (Me, Yuvraj, Sreemayee and Gopi). Guys, please welcome Shirish into the gang. His Nikon P500 was the star attraction of the day and trust me, it's just amazing. What pictures... what clarity.... everything just perfect! And on the top of it, its great looks... a must go-through for every photographers in my list :) To help you guys in having a look at it and be jealous of it... here is the pic! 

Hope to have many such memories in future. You guys rock! Love you all <3


Life is a magic. The beauty of life is next second which hides thousands of secrets!

The Gift ..!!

I have always wanted to write this post but could never frame a mindset for this. But today, if I don't write this... that would be unfair because the person about whom I am going to write actually deserves a special space in my blog!

Niraj and I started as colleagues being in the same project team where I could never have had much interaction with him. I don't really know what actually forbade me to mix with him... may be his seriousness. I would always find him lost in his system. If at all we meet at team parties and all, there also he would be silent mostly. In short, the first impression I had about him is, he is a very serious guy!

I discovered more of him when my cubical changed and I was allotted a seat facing him. Initial days were horrible for me...people around me did not talk only... all were serious... all hooked to their systems. The only sound that one could hear was mine and my cubical partner :P By that time, I think I have seen Niraj smiling once or twice which at least cleared my doubt that he is always serious. Mine and my cubical partner's arguments were always a source of entertainment for everyone around that vicinity... Niraj being one of them! In fact, he was our most potential audience then. If we won't shout, he would be bored.... if we are not present, he would miss us... and if at all we do argue over something, he would encourage us by all possible means. All that only means, he was so connected to all those situations ;) By this time, I was dead sure that my first impression of him was all wrong. He is not those serious kinds of guys rather a happy-go-lucky kind of. He works only when he loves to because then only he enjoys. If he is not enjoying, you won't find him at the desk only :)

Interacting with him more, I knew a lot more of him. He has an amazing sense of humor which can make one absolutely roll on the floor. His punches are so well timed that one cannot help bursting out of laughter. I remember, we have had days when we didn't feel like working and Niraj helped us a lot then. With his talks, tine fall short!

Now that he has left the office, it has become boring quite a lot. We don't feel like arguing... the seriousness is back... no much comic punches we ever hear and many more! Yet life moves on and I am really glad that I could meet one of the most wonderful persons ever! Now also when we meet online, he is always ready with the bag of punches and would make me laugh laugh and laugh. What I like in him is his confidence, his easy and cheerful attitude. Anyone can do the work but having the guts of doing only what one enjoys is tough. But he is the sole bearer of this quality. Adorned with many more such uncommon traits, this person is really special and I am really happy to have shared some of my funny moments with him!

I have written almost a story but then also I don't feel satisfied with my writing when it comes to Niraj. He has been encouraging me consistently in writing and it seems I am a bit nervous thinking, how this one would go. I know I won't be able to sum up him my words but then, I have tried my level best to make this post a special one... for a special person... on a special day!

A few words for you :

Because today's so special

It really wouldn't do,

To send one simple birthday wish

To last the whole year through.

So this wishes happy moments...

A day when dreams come true,

And a year that's filled with all the things,

That means the most to you!

Happy Birthday, Niraj!

Corporate Bash ..!!

Quintiles and Ness completed their 4 years of partnership! This reason is enough for a celebration. We had the party at Club Cabana. The place was cool with all water games (which I could not enjoy) but then I had my camera with me, which kept me busy.

We had loads of fun on our way with Antakshari and Dumb Charade... the people around were so fun. Then we had a nice dancing time with the DJ playing at a distant place :) This was special as we had people from outside of our friends' circle enjoying with us. I also tried my hands at playing darts and bowling. That was enjoyable. With all singing, dancing, playing, fun and frolic, the event ended. The photo sessions we had are a proof that we enjoyed in the outing throughout!

Hope to have many such occasions in future :)
Happy 4th Anniversary of Ness-Quintiles!


Let not a man guard his dignity, but let his dignity guard him!

Lost Flavour of 26th January ..!!

National festivals were always special in school and college. But once that mode changes, everything change... no more flag hoisting... no more sweets... no more national anthem... everything lost! When you are in a corporate, this day is a holiday, of all things.

Staying back at home is boring on such days, but then you have no other choice as well. Thankfully this year on Republic Day, Apu came to my place. I was out for lunch and dinner with her and whole day we gossiped, talked about a number of things, number of people... it was good. In the night (late evening for me), we watched the videos of some all time hit patriotic songs. Like every other year, this year also I watched the very special "Mile Sur Mera Tumhara...".. that was the sole celebration of Republic Day from my side!

Today is also the birthday of Lala Bhai and I could do nothing other than wishing him! In addition, it is the birthday of cute Sriyansh as well.

Happy Birthday Lala Bhai and Sriyansh!


Always be nice to people on the way up; because you'll meet the same people on the way down!

Vip's Birthday ..!!

Today is our dear friend Vip's birthday and am glad we were able to celebrate it in the best possible way. After lots of planning and discussions, Coffee n U was decided to be the venue. Cake and snacks were ordered beforehand and there was also provision of music and dance as well. We all reached there before and made all the arrangements and then came the 'hero' of the day. It was such a pleasant surprise for him! All of us were there except Yuvraj, he could not join as he had to leave for home due to some unavoidable circumstances.

Vip's birthday this year is his last birthday in Ness. Don't know how the coming year would be.. so making this special and wonderful was utmost important and we did achieve that. Thanks to everyone who joined us in making this a success!

Hey Vip, as each year passes, hope you scale the greatest heights of success and happiness be your companion always... amen!

Happy Birthday, Vip :)

Life never leaves you empty, it always replaces everything you lost. If it asks you to put something down, it is because it wants you to pick up something better!

Birthdays On ..!!

5th Jan is always a day for celebration for me. It is my official birthday and also the birthday of my little dear ones... Smarak and Aadit! This year Mitu Apa was giving her marriage treat on this day. Though official party yet it was a homely affair for me due to the presence of Lala Bhai. It always feels good when he is around!

From there, I went with Bhauja to FabIndia where I got a gift.. a new dress :) I was also gifted from my company but this time it was special due to my extended team... the card was almost full! Back home, Smarak's birthday was postponed to a weekend which means I had to be at their place for the whole of weekend, which was so much fun.

We got a special 'BlackBerry' cake for him and he was utterly happy to see that. There I met his cousins and her Japanese aunty. It was so nice meeting them... they are just awesome! With loads of fun and excitement, his birthday was celebrated. On the other hand, I just wished Aadit, which was the max thing I could do from here!

Happy Birthday Smarak and Aadit!


The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved!

Welcoming 2011 ..!!

2010 was quite eventful. It has given me ample reasons to celebrate and loads of memories to cherish. Within those simple, cute moments... I could hardly know when time flew and the year ended. Now it is time for 2011, a new year! I have always looked forward in life because life has always given me a lot in lots of ways. I never have the option of regretting anything in my life. So obviously, stepping into the new year is gladly taken by me, for it would bring with it many more occasions to celebrate, memories more events to rejoice, many new aspirations and hope!

Stepping into the new year, I feel I am more matured... my understanding and perception towards certain things and people have changed. I have decided of not taking anything too seriously, you never know where it may hurt. But I never intend to be so careless that it may hurt anyone at any point of time. Taking care of certain things, certain situations and certain people in life is important. Hope I live up to my expectations!

Let the new year be a wonderful one and hope it brings joy and happiness to all! It started off well with friends (Vip, Yuvraj, Arathi, Jahnavi, Ritesh and Sachin). Some of my very dear friends from college (Ajit, Arun, Pragnya and Sony) also came to my place for a party. It was such a fun! Hope time passes smoothly for all... amen!
Happy New Year


Never take life too seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.